Excess of food and booze are shitty consolation prizes for higher needs.

Whenever I reach for food and am not hungry, I know there is something behind that impulse.

What am I looking for?

Is it comfort? A moment of happiness/pleasure?

What makes me reach for it?

 Boredom? Sadness? Emptiness?

What makes me think of it? What was the thought before I reached it?

Is it peace, relaxation, or numbness?

Once I find my real need, I think how could I answer this need differently.

For example, if I need peace, relaxation, and “me time,” I can swap the wine for a warm shower, a book, and a cup of tea.

If I am bored and need distraction, I can walk and call a friend.

If I feel lonely and need nourishment, I can ask for a hug, play with pets, and organise events with groups of friends.

If I am anxious I could go into nature, listen a podcast, do a yoga class, call a friend.

If this resonates with you, let’s get those steps down:

1. Find your need.
2. Make a list of four or more things that could replace the food or booze to contemplate your need.
3. Act- Next time you start to crave something, ask what you need, look for your list, and respond with one of the options.

Here is the thing: You must answer the need. If you suppress and ignore it without putting anything in place, you will most likely reach out for food or booze as soon as you get tired or frustrated. You must respond to the need; you need to give what your body is asking for.

Can you think of other ways to achieve the “me time,” relaxation, or peace that a glass of wine or chocolate gives you?

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